Friday, 13 September 2019

You can be the "BADASS"

It all starts as soon as you come out of your shell and see, that the beauty that you were praising was a nasty scar. So vicious it is that many victims will not be able to figure it out until they get f***ed by it. But it isn't their fault though, because the era we are living in is filled with so-called blind motivational speakers. It depends on how you dealt with everything because till the time you confront it, it will ditch you at every moment and you being ignorant. 

So hey dude, stand up and fight and yes you got to win that else you are useless. The beauty of life is just a solid myth, break it and you will see the harsh reality where pulling legs and backstabbing are two common metaphor, for which the illusionists don't allow you to see them. There is a strong saying that, if anyone can do it it's not magic. Same with the moments around us, you are allowed to see only that scape which is beneficial for the ruler.

It's not a new thing, everybody knows it but that ocean of artificial reality is so deep to come to the shore. Either be a ruler or a slave, your choice because the ruler cannot allow a slave to take his place and that's where all bullshit starts. The ones who are ruling will continue to rule till the slave revolts because revolting requires guts and slave doesn't possess it. I typically hate the people who quote that "High thinking and simple living" is the best method to lead a happy life, but yes I know one thing for sure that how bad they are been f***ed.

At this moment you got a choice, either live the remaining life as a slave or hold on for a second and think about what you want, how you want, when you want and where you want and stamp it. Have you ever got a thought that why the middle class always ditches the rich class, and the answer is they can't do anything beyond it. So to make their mind believe that they are leading a healthy life with a perspective they fool themselves. Break your mental barrier because till the time you become ruler, you will be tested at every step. If you deserve it you will make it.

So the things you can be to become a badass are:
1. Dominate like a king.
2. Live care free.
3. Always have an opinion.
4. Make your presence count.
5. Improve yourself daily.
6. Keep an attitude of a leader.
7. Act smartly.
8. Be bold in your decision.
9. Do what matters to you.
10. Avoid people-pleasing.
11. Plan one step ahead.
12. Keep your pockets heavy.
13. Be your no. 1 priority.
14. Love for friends and family.
15. Keep rage and fierce for enemies.


Inspired by the badass in me.

Cool - The hypocrite

Today in the era of Fashion, Adventure, Thrill the so-called Cool people has evolved drastically. A large number of people feel at peek when called cool. This is the time when we post our pictures with numbers of filters and share the content which we don't give a shit about, but for all that shitty tag Cool.
The most important thing is that these all cool hypocrites are produced by their two parents Media and Social Media. The ones who possess lower or zero understanding falls in the trap and start creating nuisance all around.
Till now many of you would have been thinking about me like, why I am so judgemental, why do I care and blah blah? But hey dude this path won't lead you anywhere its a mere illusion.
So it's a time to wear off your glasses and see the reality, because reality is the true beauty.

Friday, 17 May 2019

Escaping threshold

"The idea that you have to 'find something that you're passionate about' and do it for a living is, often, a dangerous myth." - Charlie Stephen
I am sure, you all would have heard someday and somebody talking about passion and following it to earn living. Let me tell you, this advice is a full piece of shit. Do you know why you always get convinced with this thought, because you are the one who's doing miserably bad in his/her life and at the same time your career goals are also fumbling hard. Every time you think about it, you feel crestfallen because you aren't able to find out an ideal career goal neither you know what to do nor you persist any sort of skillset or talent which could help you anyhow. So the actual problem begins what should we do? But nobody got the answer. You searched it on google, asked your neighbors, your elders, your best buddies but you didn't get the solution and you are stuck here now. As you are moving forward in life and getting the touch of reality and brutality of life, your dreams have started shattering day by day, but you still hope for something good. So my friend you are in the right place.

Okay, now no extra talk. Let me give you an example and I will ask you some questions in the mid. So think if Sachin Tendulkar knew it before, that he will be scoring a hundred centuries, then he would have even joined school or would even be bothered about failing in 10th standard. The answer is no. Let's check another side if his parents forced him to study till 12th, then I don't think he will be called as "God of Cricket". But no apart from everything, Sachin Tendulkar is what we see him today, a successful former Indian cricketer. At that time there was no one to tell Sachin what should he do in his life. But can you believe Sachin wasn't always a good batsman in his initial day of cricket, but what made him outstanding was his unshakable determination. He would have also felt bad sometimes, the need to quit, the need to leave everything, but no, he didn't quit. 

The idea here is not to say that don't follow your passion, but it is solely about doing what needs to be done. We flicker here and there in search of what is right to do, but it's not the best idea to work upon. I can justify this statement also, do you remember when last time you started doing something new and quit it when it became difficult to handle it. Even most of us (approx: 90%) do the same. We start things very voraciously, but after going to a certain depth in it, we feel the need the quit and then we are left perplexed. This habit of trying out new things and quitting them in between creates a pattern in our life which acts like glasses which shows us what it wants to show, because of our negative perception. This happens again and again, and we think that why do all the bad things happens to me only, but hey dude listen you are the only one who is inviting them repeatedly. 

I hope that till now you would have understood the context I am talking about. So now comes the solution part. Everyone has certain sets of strength, the one you are passionate about is also one of your greatest strength, but it doesn't work in that way. So follow the following steps:

  1. What you think of your future, means what are those things that give you happiness?
  2. What is actually required to be done, to attain them?
  3. How much you have to put in it to carry out the results?
  4. Is it feasible?
So, make the chain of the above four questions and start analyzing things and remember do not start working on them, till you attain the clarity of mindset. The most important advice is, don't shoot randomly because the more you quit the more you lose. And the last thing when you again feel the need to quit, just pause for a moment and think if it would be so much easier to achieve than everybody else with the same dream would have already reached that goal. 

Because you know that every CSE engineer is not a software developer.

Just wait and do things accordingly and when you'll look back again, you will definitely have escaped the trap, because it's most difficult to escape the threshold but after that things comes to your way on their own.

***All the best***
Happy Reading

Thursday, 28 March 2019

I around I



There are times when a 20-year-old is stuck in life. No matter how hard he hustles, the results are more dreadful. So I am again in total inactiveness like I shouldn't do anything. At this very moment, life seems to be at a stop where nothing goes in or comes out, but music expels me to overcome from that zone. It is something which couldn’t be explained in words because it’s just a feeling of something which makes me sit idle. At this moment I don’t want to do anything, but I have a definite answer to why I feel this way. Actually what I think is that there is nothing left for me at this place because I totally don’t like the things I am revolving around. I want to be something else, do something else, but things nowadays are virtual traps because I want to pursue those things that make me feel connected to reality, my family, friends and moreover which could ultimately make me happy. But it’s not that easy to overcome from this vicious cycle because nobody will allow you to live the life that way. So I know how can I live the way I want and the answer is that firstly I should go with these things for sometime and after a certain time I should exit and for exiting I need to conquer small checkpoints lying in my pathway. So once I attain that freedom, I will definitely be doing things which makes me to actually feel the beauty of the things and get connected to the heart of everyone.


Tuesday, 19 March 2019

Perplexed Thoughts!!!

Just figuring out things, analysing probabilities, discussing opportunities, working diligently and ultimately thinking of future and progressively misspending present unknowingly. Then comes two things in my mind, is this right or wrong. The things I am currently pursuing, do they worth the effort I am putting in or everything is useless. Why I start questioning myself at every moment? Do I need to reorder the tasks which I am performing or should I omit them permanently?
    But then at the very moment, this striking thought pops up in my mind that, if I was supposed to settle in less then why I am thinking about it. Those tasks, those sleepless nights which I have put in can't go to waste. Then I convince myself that relax dude and don't think of settling, because you are here for something more substantial, more considerable. So wait for the right time and you will definitely be facing the Volcano of your minimal but relentless effort coming true one day.
   It's my per-diem activity and I hope those who are reading this will definitely aren't settling for anything less then they deserve. So go on and smash everything you do.

Tuesday, 12 March 2019

My Future Wife

Today 2019, but still now humanity doesn't sustain Time Machine. Everybody wants to know their past or future, but we cant. But still, some of the things are predictable up to 75% and those are some of the checkpoints which most of the people face in their lifetime.
      Among them, one of the most important checkpoints is marriage which is somewhat certain to happen. But when we think about it, it's so much mesmerising that after some point of time in my life there would be a person, from whom I am going to share my rest of the life. It just feels like another world to my thought, because at this very moment I am talking about someone unknown. It's kind of feeling, in which I know that one day I will definitely meet her, but for now, I can't even imagine a face. How ridiculous it could be but yes it is giving me an internal smile right now. She will be somewhere doing something or might even be thinking about me. But do you know what is the best part of this, that one day will come and we'll be together and yes my thoughts will also become reality on that day!
      So all the best to those who have already found their life partner, but for those who don't have that special person. I just want to say them, just wait guyz, because hero or heroine has always the best entry scene in the movie.

Saturday, 5 January 2019

Everybody faces

Everywhere and all around, someone at some time is facing some problem. The problem a very heavy word, which has snatched smile from many of the faces. Some rise above these problems and some die with the load of it, from this we can't say that anybody dealing with their problem us right or wrong because everyone thinks that their problem is bigger than others problem.  But nobody ever gives a thought about why these problems are with them, why are they suffering from them.
So before we dive deep into the solution to problems, we must know various types of problem in different contexts.

1. Problem-related to finance.
2. Problem-related to health.
3. Problem-related to career.
4.Problem-related to the family.

Above are some common types of problems and apart from that we will discuss one more and major problem but first of all, we will discuss above four problems as they group mostly all small and big problems.

So please, just relax and most importantly if there would be no problem in your, I can definitely bet that your life would be broing as hell. So enjoy problems, as they are the reason which gives meaning to your so called "LIFE".