Digital Era: Rise of Fakism!

Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram... all three are top social media platforms with multi-million active users active daily. The question isn't why are they so popular, rather why we are so addicted to them. The simple answer is where dream meets reality, we get carried away. 

Social Media gives us recognition, we get likes & comments on our photos, videos and every other stuff we chose to share. This leads to giving us false recognition which we lack in real life because appreciating on social media is a must while we didn't give a crap of how much that same person is worth in real life. 

But this is not the case as we do get recognition in real life too but it's always delayed, but on social media, everything is so fast and getting fast recognition and appreciation is not a big deal there. So no matter it's temporary or fake we somehow crave for it, because that feeling drives us to thrive more and that's why we share our heartbreaks & achievements firstly on social media then to some person.

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SO NOW WE HAVE PROBLEM & A REASON!

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But what's the solution?

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You already know!

Life is Destiny!

I am happy as of now because there is no college, nothing is more important than being at home because of this coronavirus shit. But everybody is at home and doing everything for enhancing their career and I am in that race too. Though its a good deal but for somedays, I a feeling a bit different.

• My college is unofficially over because now onwards nothing will be as same as before march 2020 and we all will be more concerned about our health than trips and outings.
• And after some time I'll be in virtual combat with my friends for getting a job.
• All my dreams as a child are now burdened with the responsibility of my family, it may not feel like it but yes it does make me breathe heavily.
• The carefree and careless in me is now careful and responsible.

But this above is not that sufficient for pulling me under stress, but my own thought process is. We may not feel it like this but no, we're living on a dying planet and once it dies we all die with it too and humanity will be responsible for their miserable outcomes.

At this moment in time, I want nothing more than to live happily. But after these more than 100+ days of self-quarantine I feel pity for myself. Earlier also I had a chance to live but no I didn't. I was always caring about rules, regulation, society, right deeds and all that bullshit that could stop me from doing what I always wanted. 

But not now, I have accepted death as a final outcome and all the other things in our way are just camouflage to not let us live the way we want to. So I know the truth behind life and will get to know about death too when it hugs me.

The truth is "We all are dying slowly". There is nothing like ageing, growing or maturing, they're all fooling words because the essence behind them is ultimately death.

So this is my pledge to me, if the things around me even got back to 50% of the normal I'll not stop myself for doing anything which makes me feel alive even for a fraction of second. If you are able to connect with my thought process, then be sure to leave a thumbs-up in the comment.

Life is Destiny!

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Kind of "Friends"!

Not all friends are friends!
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Why is it like that?

With some people, we can share our deepest secret and with some, we can't even shares memes and yet we speak with them daily.

Doesn't this ☝️ statement arise a question in itself?

It's a weird theory, but worth to share because we live our life between different faces we call friends. So we'll be understanding the kind of friends first.

Firstly the people, whom we think our friend ✔️.

Secondly, the people who think us to be their friend ✔️.

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Thirdly, the people to which we just randomly fake ❌.

Hence, I am here with one question which you need to ask yourself and the answer will be in self-served.

Question is that "Who are those people to whom you ask to comment and like your post on a phone call?". 

The answer is "All the people's name you could fill in it are those who really are your true friend".

So find it out and if you have at least 3 people then you're blessed my friend, go cherish those friendships.



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Society: An Unseen cage!

"What is society?" is a bigger question than it being a cage because when you know something exists but that too in a different form, then it becomes a matter of concern. The more you try to explore the niche working of society, the more tangled you found it to be. So not going beneath the rock but the simple conclusion is you are a society in yourself and the cage is nothing but your mindset.

But you all know that. Right?

So what I am making out of it? The point is when we are something, we tend to exhibit a different face of ourselves different to what we presumably think it off ourselves.

Still not getting it?

It's called hypocrisy and it has expanded its roots deep inside us. 

Let's take an example. We all have a take on word feminism, I am assuming you all are well-versed with the idea of what it stands for. But here's a catch, everybody out there has a different take or pov to be exact on this subject so my question simply is "What is a correct explanation of Feminism?" 

[Note: The comment box is open to you all and please put your valuable thoughts in it before you start reading it further.]

Now, if you're done with commenting so just analyse that can everyone has the same pov. No is my answer to your take because everybody is set to be brought up in a different environment and they all can differ w.r.t the society or culture they're living in. But we all know that then also we're trying too hard to get ourselves verified, but it can't happen because everybody has a different story.

So I hope you all are clear on a point that why we can't agree on the same perspective. Now cutting the long story short I have a different question that if we all pose this level of understanding then why do we fail in verifying the idea of things which we're burdened with since birth and yet we are carrying them like our own body weight. 

[Note: So again,comment box is always open put your thoughts in there now before you forget what to say?]

Conclusion:

Being a human in itself gives us the right to question anything with everything, so utilise this power and shred the weight of this false camouflage of society's expectations and believe me, my friend, it might be a little bit difficult but it's worth the after-effects you're going to experience with a blissful life ahead.

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Purpose of earning Money: Redefined

The value of 'Money' has increased exponentially in recent times. But after evolving from a time where goods were exchanged not purchased is a relaxing sign because 21-century in itself is a bit paced-up and hence its demands are also a bit uneasy. However humans have already managed to do well in this time, but now a major chunk of the human race is running behind money as if it's more important than oxygen. It's not a bad deal though, but when you're lost in acquiring irrelevant material by putting your limited time at the stake it turns out to be a futile deal. One should always bid on more significant aspects which in turn gives you the desired output.

We fall prey to this vicious cycle unknowingly and this is the only thing which is fascinating us since our childhood. The thought process for different ages is different in terms of monitory returns. A kid uses the money to enjoy, a teenager uses it to showoff whereas an adult uses it to satisfy their needs.


This problem of running behind money becomes our true identity after some odd years of birth and finally becomes a habit before touching adolescent years. We as a human might not exhibit it directly in front of our peers, but for some people, the hunger for money is one single purpose of living. No matter how gruelling it would be, yet some people in our surroundings can actually minimize this hunger. In turn, it seems to be the best shot that an individual can make to come out of this trap.


I would provide you with a set of 3 questions with answers and you'll know it by yourself rather than trying to tell you a complete story to redefine the purpose of earning money. So continuing without further ado:


Q1. What you want to be or what you see yourself doing 10 years down the line?
Ans. If you're doing something out of your league, then you're destined to become a robot for earning money if you continue. But if you work on your natural strengths then you might get results much earlier with much lesser efforts. One should always leave something which you're not good at because improving that would require a lot of hard work rather than improving on your strengths. You need to become a master of one skill to do what you crave for.


Q2. How we should make money vs how we are doing it now?
Ans. We as of today runs behind the high earning profile, but that's southwards man. If someone's working like this, he is more focused on earning stress rather than a satisfying income. Try to get skilled in your niche and revolve around it and every fog will automatically settle on its own. So if you think that the amount of money you need is being provided by the job itself then it's ok but if you want to start your venture, nobody will stop you. Go on slay it.


Q3. What's the most important thing while earning?
Ans. To make you continue all the way long you need something different so deciding on spending part is also a very important foundation. Dead lives are walking daily in cities and towns to create piles of money with zero satisfaction. This is a blunder, you as a human are not created for piling up something and that's when people lose interest in living. See their faces, you'll lament for sure. So just don't let it happen to you with these fake inputs by our society and circles.



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Immortality a Boon or Curse

Despite living on this earth for over a period of more than 50 odd years, humans still think their lifespan is less. Their desire for spending more time on this planet hasn't decreased a bit. This intense craving for more time increases as they grow and older. Some of them might show a different behaviour but the majority of the human race is trapped in this nuisance thought. The idea of 'Immortality" in itself seems very warm, because if that would have been the case, then the pace of everything would have fallen short as compared to the present scenario. So come on in with me, and let's dive deep this story of what would be the life and living standards of a person who was given a long life to be spent. 

So a little preface of this story is a little weird. The life span is just increased on a scale of 100 to 1000. 

eg:- if someone lives a normal life of 60 years, then longer life span would be of 600 years.

[Note:- Regardless of the title this scenario is kept to 1000 years because writing about never-ending immortal life would be impossible.]

Cases: The man lives a longer life, but everyone else is living a normal life.

• Normal life = 60 - 80 years lifespan
• Longer life = 600 - 800 years lifespan

The normal life with a small-time given on this earth seems to be a curse for many of us. We want to live more. But the problem lies in the perspective because initially, we are so trapped in making our career that we stop living or it could be anything just snatching away our time. So time is not less but we are so delusional that we take it for granted in the sake of some career bullshit or the drama which gets us blind-folded till we hit the old age.

Okay then, leave it. We are here to discuss, what could have been our journey and how beautiful will be our experiences if we were gifted with a long life. Here we'll be understanding of how a person with a longer life span feels because it's almost certain that the task which we perform or the actions that we take are mainly satisfaction oriented.

So the difference starts here, when our friends started to grow old we still be in our mid-twenties. It would be a relaxing sign as we have a long way to go. No matter how wrong we were in our career decision, we can re-correct it. As the physique of a 25-year-old allows us to be proactive in each and every task. But after some time what we'll see is that our friend's time comes to an end on this earth while we still look like a college graduate in the late 30's.

So we might find ourself in a deep dilemma because on one hand, we'll be celebrating and utilising the 70 odd years experience in life for our career and that'll be very much satisfying but on other hand, all our friends will be leaving for a train to heaven. This can become a very disturbing time as well because after some time there would be no one to address us. We might have achieved a lot in these years, but ultimately we'll become lonely because now our kids are also going to leave us at some point in time. But we are still doing great in our life as we'll be having a good business empire and a lot of money flowing in our bank account. But certainly, money won't be a big deal after some time.

This money, fame and this long life will come out to be a curse because firstly friends, wife, then our children and then our grandchildren, everyone will leave us and there will be nobody to whom which we can share our so-called success. But still, some of the kids our grandchildren will still be in our touch but after 50 odd years, there will be a generation lapse, because you have already lived a life of more than 150 years. You might become a billionaire but "A Billionaire without feelings", "A Billionaire without a family". The humans are subjected to be involved in many of the things, one of them is living together because we are humans and we need other humans as well because no matter what we do, we need people around us to whom we can share and I think that's the concept of a family rather than just increasing the population on the planet.

Lived 200 years.

Lived 400 years.

Approaching 600 years and feeling great because we are about to die and death comes as a relief from this fake materialistic world.

Conclusion:
Whoever has gone through this wonderful thought process so far, I hereby request you to please pause your life for a day or two and analyse what you're doing right now is worthy of your time or not. Because as we know, time is limited so why to waste it on some useless shit. We don't get 600 years to make mistakes and learn from them. We must understand our cause for living because you must have to have a direction, or you shouldn't blame anyone else for your 70 years on this earth as a piece of crab, because you were the one who got so busy that you forgot to analyse your doings and fall prey to this vicious unending cycle.

Thanks for reading.